I totally believe that things happen for a reason. It is rather strange how things just happen to fall into my lap sometimes. With all my ponderings on men and dating and boyfriends, this is actually just what I need. There is a website that has a listing of men that are abusive (physically and mentally) to women. Women share their stories with other women and can post the name of these men on the site in order to warn other women who might be considering dating these abusive guys. This is a Date Screening Website. I never knew there was anything out there like this! I personally think it is wonderful! There are also a ton of free resources for women as well; medical advice, forums and other specialist designed just for us women.
So to all women out there, me included, screen your man before you get in over your head. Let me tell you, from experience, its no fun having a psycho husband or boyfriend.